You can't be "balanced". That is an idea fostered by people seeking cosmetic gain, but it can't be achieved because it is not the nature of humans to balance...we specialize dependent on our need. This is why we are the dominant species on Earth. Every other animal has one specialty, but humans specialize to whatever they are doing.

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"A warrior takes his lot, whatever it may be, and accepts it in ultimate humbleness. He accepts in humbleness what he is, not as grounds for regret but as a living challenge." - Carlos Castaneda